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Massage can ease the tension-type headaches common in pregnancy by relaxing tight neck, shoulder and scalp muscles. A severe or sudden headache, especially later in pregnancy, should be checked by your midwife straight away.
Most pregnancy headaches are tension headaches, driven by tight muscles in the neck, shoulders and scalp, changing hormones, broken sleep, and dehydration. For that kind, massage can bring real relief by releasing the tension behind the ache.
For one particular kind of headache, though, the right move is your midwife, not the massage table. This guide covers both, because knowing the difference matters.
Why headaches are so common in pregnancy
A lot stacks up at once. Hormones shift in the early weeks. Your posture changes as your bump grows, loading the neck and shoulders. Sleep is broken, you may be drinking less water than you think, and many women have cut down caffeine, which brings its own headaches for a while.
Most of these are tension-type headaches: a tight, pressing band around the head, often worse by the end of the day. That muscular tension is exactly what massage is good at releasing.
How massage helps tension headaches
Working the muscles of the upper back, shoulders, neck and scalp releases the tension that refers pain up into the head. As those muscles let go, the band-like ache often eases with them.
A lot of this is the same work as an Indian head massage, adapted for pregnancy and done in a supported position. Many women feel the headache lift during the session, and leave with looser shoulders that keep the next one at bay.
Most pregnancy headaches are tension held in the neck and shoulders. Release that, and the ache usually goes with it.
The headache that needs urgent attention
From around 20 weeks, a severe or sudden headache that will not shift, especially with changes to your vision (blurring, spots, flashing lights), swelling of the face, hands or feet, or pain just below your ribs, can be a sign of pre-eclampsia. Contact your midwife or maternity unit immediately.
This is not a headache to wait out or to treat with massage. If in any doubt, call. Your maternity team would always rather check.
What a session looks like
From 12 weeks, you are supported on your side or semi-reclined while I work the shoulders, neck and scalp at a calm pace. It is gentle, warm, and focused exactly where tension headaches are built.
If your headache is severe, sudden, or comes with any of the warning signs above, I will not treat it. I will send you straight to your midwife. More on when massage should wait.